God vs Nature

I was reading a book called "Life Touches Life" about a mother who lost her daughter Victoria to stillbirth at full-term. In the book there is a chapter on God. In that chaper a friend of hers suggested that maybe it was not God who "took" her daugther, but it was God who had mercy on her to bring her home when he did. This mother suffered from an infection that took her daughters life. The friend was saying that infections do nasty stuff to the brain and if she would've lived she may have had some real suffering all through out her life. Maybe it was Gods mercy to keep her from that suffering on this earth and in this life.
I dont know what happened to Stella, there was no known medical reason for why she died. But if it was something like a lack of oxygen because of cord compression, or because she was laying on her placenta the whole pregnancy, or an infection that was never found that had hurt her. I will never know. But when she was born she wasn't breathing and didn't have a heart beat that i know of. If she wouldve survived the resuscitation maybe she wouldve been mentally retarded for her entire life, or had a disease that wouldve caused pain and suffering if she were here. Maybe it was just Gods mercy to take her home.
Nature is a BITCH and treats everyone alike, a mercy-less bitch. No one is exempt from what nature can do to you or your children. Its god that has the mercy to bring us home.